Dry spell broken
FINALLY!
So to recap…last night I had sex, but lets start from the beginning…
The other night I ran into a friend whom I hadn’t seen in a while. We have always been very flirtatious, but it always seemed like we were both in relationships. So we bumped into each other and he asked me where I had been. When I realized that he didn’t know I had been engaged, a gave him the short version of the story…I was engaged, and now I’m not. He smiled. I mentioned that I just learned that he was newly single as well. He asked how I was doing with the whole broken engagement, and I told him that I wasn’t looking for a relationship right now, but it would be nice to get laid. So he suggested that we should “hang out”.
Now I’m not stupid, I knew what was about to go down. He pulled out his phone and looked at his calendar. He asked if I was free Wednesday night around 11. (11pm..that’s a booty call, in advance no less. This guy was not kidding around) So I agreed.
I thought to myself for a second, did I really just make a sex date?
So Wednesday night rolls around and I show up at his apartment, not really sure what to expect. We went into his room and pretended to watch tv for about 2 minutes before he started kissing me. Within 10 minutes of me getting in the door he had all my clothes off.
It was very strange at first. Not really in a bad way, but I had never been in a situation where nothing really needed to be said. There was no need to talk about it, tease about it, we just got down to business. For I second I really missed the foreplay, the teasing, the playing, etc. But then I just gave in. I wasn’t self conscious for a second. It was a relief to see that I could just let go and not worry about anything and just enjoy it.
When we were done we just lay there and watched TV. We talked, cuddled a bit, kissed a little, but mostly we just hung out. He suggested I stay over (which supprised me), but I told him I had to get back home.
It got me thinking about friendships. You know how they say that a girl and a guy can never really just be friends. But that doesn’t mean you always have to date them. What if you just had a very sexual friendship. Do feelings have to turn up eventually? I’m not sure.
We will explore this further.
