An interesting development

This past Thursday was Veterans Day, so naturally I didn’t have school. I usually have class very early in the morning so when I did happen to have sex with the guy I’ve been sleeping with I wasn’t able to stay over. 

I kept feeling like he felt used in some way, like he really wanted me to stay and sleep there with him. I guess I never really felt bad about it since that was purely a sexual relationship. He had never taken me out to dinner, or done anything to indicate he wanted to be in a more meaningful relationship with me so I just let it slide. 

But since I knew I didn’t have to be anywhere early on Thursday, I thought I would see if he was free Wednesday night. I didn’t tell him that I didn’t have class the next morning I just simply asked if he was busy. He told me that he had dinner plans that night but said he would be free Thursday night after an event he was going to, and Friday night after he has dinner with his dad. 

I mentioned that Friday night wouldn’t work for me, but Thursday night I would be around. 

Thursday rolls around and I had plans to have drinks with a friend of mine who was in town. She had invited me to meet her for drinks so I assumed it would just be the two of us and we would be able to catch up. But when I got to the bar there were a few people she had invited. I wasn’t upset since it was mainly people I knew, so I greeted everyone at the table and walked over to the bar to get a drink. While I was walked back to the table someone behind me says “well hello there”. I turn around and it’s the guy I’ve been sleeping with. 

Now we are friends and we do run in the same social circle so I wasn’t terribly shocked to see him there but I didn’t know that he knew my friend at all. We hung out there for about an hour and a half, then the guy turns to me and asks what I’m doing Saturday night. I told him that I would be out of town for the day, but I should be driving back to the city around 9. He suggested that I stop by his place on my way home on Saturday because he had an early morning tomorrow and didn’t think that it would be a good idea for me to come over that night. 

But then he did something very out of character. He suggested that we just grab dinner after drinks were over. (Something we have never done). I agreed and we left the bar and started walking in the direction of Bryant Park. When we got there we noticed that they had already set up the holiday ice skating rink, and that there was a restaurant right next to it. So we had a nice meal outside, rink side. When we were done with dinner he kissed me goodnight and we both went home. 

I’m not so sure how I feel about this whole development, but I’m considering whether or not I should see him Saturday night. I’ll keep you updated.